Where I come from , "love" is not a "feelin'", it's a comittment in spite of 'ow ya feel. Fergit 'ow ya feel, fergit the roses, etc. (I'm sure as hell not an expert 'ere), but perhaps, try somethin' radical, like jus' bein' yerself! It's a lot less awkward than tryin' to be 'er "everythin'"...